Question 1

What is the benefit of a specialized relationship therapy practice over a typical therapy practice?

Accepted Answer

A specialized relationship therapy practice offers expertise tailored to couples’ or relationship-specific issues, such as communication problems, attachment dynamics, intimacy challenges, or conflict resolution, providing targeted strategies for improvement. This approach uses relationships as a mirror for gaining key insights into our attachment dynamics, emotional patterns, and our sense of Self.

Question 2

How does learning our love languages help our intimacy?

Accepted Answer

Learning each other’s love languages helps you connect in ways that feel meaningful and fulfilling. You may be expressing love, but if it’s not in a way your partner naturally receives it—like physical touch, words of affirmation, or quality time—it might not land. In therapy, understanding your love languages can strengthen emotional and physical intimacy by helping you both feel more seen, valued, and emotionally aligned in the relationship.

Question 3

What's the difference between talking to a relationship therapists and talking to my best friend?

Accepted Answer

The difference is between someone who can do something and someone who has the training and experience to do that same thing professionally. A mental health professional can help you approach your situation in a new way– teach you new skills, gain different perspectives, listen to you without judgment or expectations, and help you listen to yourself. Furthermore, counseling is completely confidential. You won’t have to worry about others “knowing my business.” Lastly, if your situation provokes a great deal of negative emotion, and you’ve been confiding in a friend or family member, there is the risk that once you are feeling better you could start avoiding that person so you aren’t reminded of this difficult time in your life.

Question 4

Why is learning our attachment styles so important in therapy?

Accepted Answer

Understanding your attachment styles helps uncover the deeper emotional needs and fears that drive your reactions in the relationship. Whether you tend to pull away, seek reassurance, or feel easily triggered by disconnection, therapy can help you recognize these patterns and respond in healthier, more secure ways. It’s not about labeling—it's about gaining insight, increasing empathy for each other, and building a more emotionally safe and connected partnership.

Question 5

How can therapy help me?

Accepted Answer

Therapy provides a safe, supportive space to explore your true thoughts and feelings without judgment. A therapist can help you recognize unhelpful patterns, gain insight into yourself, and build skills for clearer decision-making and greater confidence. Over time, this process can lead to improved relationships, stronger self-connection, and a deeper sense of happiness and fulfillment.

It’s not about being “fixed,” but about uncovering the tools you already have and learning how to use them in new, healthier ways. Therapy can also provide a space for practicing new communication skills, receiving honest feedback, and experiencing the healing power of being deeply understood. The journey is unique to you, but the goal is the same: to help you move toward a life that feels more authentic, balanced, and connected.

Question 6

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

Accepted Answer

Therapy may be helpful if you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to move forward. Many people seek therapy when they notice patterns that no longer serve them, when stress, anxiety, or sadness become hard to manage, or when relationships feel strained. Others simply want a safe place to better understand themselves, their story, and the emotions that shape their choices.

Therapy isn’t only for moments of crisis. It can also be a powerful tool if you’re doing well but want to go deeper—whether that means expanding your creativity, strengthening your capacity for meaningful connection, or growing into a fuller expression of yourself. Many people use therapy as a way to uncover new possibilities and build on the strengths they already have.

If you’ve ever wished for a trusted partner to help you make sense of your experiences, clarify your goals, and explore new ways of coping, therapy could be a good fit. You don’t need to have everything “figured out” before starting—therapy is a space where you can safely express yourself while learning, growing, and discovering what’s possible at your own pace.

Question 7

What’s the difference between weekly couples therapy and an intensive?

Accepted Answer

Weekly therapy offers consistent, gradual support over time. Intensives, on the other hand, condense months of work into a focused, immersive experience. They allow space to dive deeper, without the interruptions of day-to-day life or limited session time.

Question 8

Can therapy help me improve my relationships even if I come in alone?

Accepted Answer

Yes. You don’t need to attend therapy as a couple or family for your relationships to benefit. The way we connect with others is often shaped by our own patterns of communication, boundaries, and self-awareness. By exploring these in therapy, you can learn healthier ways of relating, gain tools for expressing yourself more clearly, and understand the dynamics that may be creating tension or distance.

When one person grows, it naturally impacts the people around them. Many clients find that as they build confidence, learn to regulate emotions, and approach conflict differently, their relationships begin to shift in positive ways—sometimes even without the other person being in the room. Therapy can give you the skills and insight to show up with more authenticity, compassion, and clarity in all of your relationships

Question 9

My partner won’t agree to couples therapy what do I do?

Accepted Answer

This is very common. Start with what you can control, seek relationship counseling on your own, and work up to asking your partner to join you for a session once you have an understanding of the part that you play in your own relationship.

Question 10

What happens if I don't know what to talk about?

Accepted Answer

That’s completely normal. Many people come to therapy unsure of where to start or worried they’ll “run out of things to say.” Therapy isn’t about performing or having the perfect topic prepared—it’s about showing up as you are.

Your therapist will help guide the conversation, ask thoughtful questions, and create space for whatever feels most present for you in the moment.

Sometimes we begin with what’s happening in your daily life, your relationships, or even how you’re feeling right there in the room. In sessions we aim to promote being in the present moment and allowing you to set the pace. We may gently explore thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to identify patterns and possible strategies for change.

We also emphasize collaboration, meaning you and your therapist work together to uncover meaning, possibilities, and solutions unique to your story.

There’s no “right” way to do therapy. Even silence can be meaningful, and every session is an opportunity to just be yourself and allow what naturally comes out.

Question 11

What should I expect in my first session?

Accepted Answer

our first session is about getting to know you—there’s no pressure to have everything figured out. We’ll talk about what brings you to therapy, your hopes and goals, and any questions you may have about the process. The first few sessions are also a chance for you to get to know your therapist and see how the fit feels.

Therapy always moves at a pace that feels comfortable for you. It’s a human-centered, collaborative process designed to meet you where you are. Many people feel a mix of relief and nervousness in their first session, which is completely normal. Think of it as a starting point: you don’t need to have the perfect words or know exactly where to begin. Together, we’ll create a foundation for the work ahead and move forward in a way that supports your needs.

Question 12

What if I’ve tried therapy before and it didn’t work?

Accepted Answer

It’s not uncommon to feel discouraged if past therapy didn’t meet your needs. Finding the right therapist can take time—just like any meaningful relationship, the connection and fit matter. Sometimes it takes a few tries before you find someone whose style, approach, and personality truly resonate with you.

We recommend that if you’ve ever felt drawn to try therapy, it’s worth giving yourself another chance. The most important factors are feeling comfortable with your provider and confident in the process. Therapy works best when you feel safe, supported, and understood—and once you find that fit, the experience can feel very different from what you may have tried before.

Question 13

Do you offer virtual or telehealth therapy sessions?

Accepted Answer

Yes. We understand that life can be busy, and location or travel limitations shouldn’t stand in the way of your healing. That’s why we offer virtual couples therapy sessions and online intensives, making it easier to access support from the comfort of your home.

For those seeking a more immersive experience, we also offer in-person intensives and concierge therapy, which can be tailored to your needs and location.

Learn More > (https://www.yourlovestoryexpert.com/telehealth)

Question 14

What if I need to cancel or reschedule a session?

Accepted Answer

We understand that life can be unpredictable, and sometimes you may need to change your appointment. If possible, please cancel or reschedule at least 48 hours in advance so we can adjust our schedule and offer the time to someone else.

Cancellations made with less than 48 hours’ notice may be charged the full session rate, as this time was reserved specifically for you. Our goal is to be flexible while maintaining fairness and consistency, and we appreciate your understanding.

Question 15

What are your rates?

Accepted Answer

Our private pay rates are as follows: 
Individual Rate $150
Couples Rate $200
We accept all major credit cards and HSA.

We also accept most major insurance companies - please reach out to inquire and see if we accept your insurance.

We also offer sliding scale rates for those who may be unable to afford or access our normal rates but who may be in need of help. If this is the case, please send us a message and we will try our best to accommodate your need and connect you with a therapist.

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